Dating a man 10 years older than you
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I always seem to date guys between 10 to 20 years older than me. I still get the common response from my friends: “He's too old for you! 'I Dated A Man More Than 10 Years Older Than Me—Here's What It Was. But what's it really like to date someone way, way older than you? My husband is eleven years older than me.
Do you think this is a terrible idea?Don't rush, but don't be afraid of getting into a relationship that, if it is for the right reasons, could turn out to be the most wonderful part of your lives.
I said much the same thing at Dalrock’s–that players need to be shamed along with sluts–and the religious party came after me as if I were the anti-Christ. I think it part it comes from age and experience. I think so, perhaps even a bit later. I was just completely confused and thoroughly embarrassed by the entire incident. I wonder what the women here think of the Cappy Cap link?
Most people don’t get that lucky, and they wind up dating a few people, which is also OK. My point is, even a “restricted” woman can ride the “carousel” once or twice, and if the primary sticking point is riding at all, then unrestricted vs. My problem should have been finding somewhere to jack off not loneliness.
I’m sure they never thought that their wives were “having imaginary sex” with other men, and are also the most likely to have been cheated on by their wives when ovulation occurred, because that is when she is most likely to “step out” and take the risk. I’m the bloody atheist, remember?
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He was merely questioning why a bunch of “pious” Christians would cheer lead for players. He’s banking on the idea that no one is going to hit a cripple. Hope we see each other again.
- Also, while women do appreciate increased masculinity during ovulation, most reject hypermasculine males at all times, including ovulation.
- And don’t worry, like TedD, I do get comfort from the marriage.
- And how odd is it that the Coopers, Zachs, and Ted Ds of the HUS world are pretty much in total agreement here?
- And that young men are right to slum-it-up in their twenties playing video-games, then wreck havoc on the SMP when they get their turn to.
- And there isn’t a damn thing she can do about it.
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Ted, I was talking with someone last night about “the illusion of accomplishment. That is not to say that if I met the right person tomorrow, I wouldn’t get into a serious relationship. Thats the only thing on this whole post that keeps me out of the cave with Cooper, though for totally different reasons.
If your future with your boyfriend is important to you, these things might take a lot of talking and compromise to fit into your current life. In other words: Are you part of the problem or part of the solution? In the case of some the real fringe guys, I can’t imagine that they might be source of good ideas. In the grocery store yesterday, in a 40 minute timeframe, I had 5 guys come up to me and start talking. Instead of cussing them good, just say, “No comment.
I’ve gone to several charity balls (filled with arrogant men), volunteered all over and continue to do so (met some LOVELY gay guys who have become good friends), and I haven’t joined one of those intramural sports teams, but my coworkers that have had no luck meeting anyone. Jackie, that’s one of my favorite movie scenes! Just fast forward or get used to it. Like the quote to Deti yesterday, Be the change you wish to see in this world, Ted! Logic has nothing to do with it.
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No one is saying you have to be OK with it. Nobody mentioned that the social hierarchy in college is rather fragmented, and the smart guys are outside the sexual hierarchy. Not to say that these women don’t want to get married, it just hasn’t even crossed their mind seriously at that time point. Once the flame is gone, girls will break up with guys without much concern over their feelings. One improves society, the other harms itthere is no equivalence. Online dating: a couple of points.
Interesting, while I was researching this post I came across a raging debate among evo psychologists. Is Rob Lowe a friend of yours? Isn’t that what we’ve been saying all along? It can be more challenging to meet older guys, who are unlikely to hang out in the same venues frequented by the post-college crowd.
It has far more to do with maturity than actual age, but I fear maturity is coming later in life these days. It is about comfort, not excitement for me at least. It reminds me a little of when my father couldn’t figure out why anyone thought calculus was hard.
- But as long as he keeps adjusting the age of his women up to compensate his aging, dating will become easier and easier.
- But being with someone who has an established career and fully formed network hasn’t made it easy.
- But since you made it a question, I’ll answer it simply: Because I NEVER want my boys to have to “give up” on it in their personal lives.
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It’s hard to take the “sphere seriously because of all the anger and bitterness. It’s often done so well, that it sends the messege to most normal guys – I’m too much for you to handle. It’s such a peaceful beautiful place. It’s too late to deny whatever it is that you’re denying here.
I have to thank her for that lol. I know one woman in her mid 20’s who shackled up with her first serious boyfriend, first guy she had sex with, and she made it clear she’d only sleep with the guy if he moved in with her and played his role as a co-habitation couple. I know very few men that I would consider attractive that are 40 and older. I realize that this post marginalizes the Coopers and the Kendras. I really wonder how people come to the conclusion that money can make them happy.
She didn’t say it was a goal, she said it under the heading of “you never know. She gives tacit support to that thought process. Shortcut: Women are emotional.
What zach said, in its entirety (and I’m not in NY). When I mentioned Mother Teresa, I was looking for an example of a famous person who wrestled with faith and still completed the mission. Who were denied counselling and pretty much told to fuck off and man up. Why am I having to explain the basic risks and benefits of dating? Yet is less fire-n-brimstone (and definitely much more erudite) than many –I’d say MOST– branches of Christianity. You are making a mountain out of a molehill.
Dating as cosumption=>return is not.Dating is shopping for a mate.Dating up is a good idea if you are looking for someone who is mature.
Did anyone here catch that ridiculous comment?
Man, some days I think I might have sold myself short. Many guys in their early 20s are not ready, but some clearly are – INTJ and Cooper are two great examples. Most aren’t, that’s the reality. Most guys I know think that way as well, but plenty of girls I know have said they could make out for hours with nothing else.
I would not break up with my girlfriend for gaining 10 pounds. I would say that the guy wasn’t very interested in you. I “only” moved across the country to be with my husband. If you both are older, the 10-year gap probably won't seem like a big deal. If you want “nothing serious” (which seems to be code for monogamy), then have fun around with the players, that’s what they are there for.
Don’t make assumptions about the conservative girl. Every place you will go draws guys of every sort.
How could you find this offensive? How is this any accomplishment? How many days did you get up to before you had the hallucinations? However, a new study finds that while women do respond more favorably to the faces and bodies of men with strong immune responses, they seem to cue into fatness and thinness, not macho features, when making their judgments. I abandoned my career and women as my primary motivators in life and pursued fun.
I actually think it had the opposite effect though, because I read some of his other posts and heard “all you can have is XYZ, quick bullet now or slow starvation later. I appreciate all the research and graphs as well as weighing the pros and cons. I can’t promise I’d take the “higher” path in the eyes of humanity, but my solution would work. I considered converting to Judaism for a while, but decided that I liked bacon far too much.
I’m not quite sure what to say about this one. I’m not trying to be a PITA here, but I have friends for this stuff. I’m simply saying that you can decide to break up with your gf for gaining 10 lbs.
That’s just more disposable income, freetime and a zero percent chance of getting divorced. The point is, don’t settle for meh. There is nothing inherently selfish about being young, having your own income, and spending money on stuff you like. There is nothing more distracting than being freshly in love. They just have not found the right woman yet and will keep trying until they do.
Since you skipped over this part, I will repeat it. So don’t feel like you’re the only fucked up guy around these parts. So, worse, a supplicator who thinks writing trite anti-male cartoons in which the bitchy girl always humiliates the idiot male will get him laid. Start engaging men and women of all ages.
Top on to that the inability of an undergraduate degree failing to stimulate much beyond an IQ of 11 and its a recipe for depression. We are the same age cohort. Well that is certainly not what I meant to communicate. What some people in the (wo)manospheres need to realize is that life isn’t fair, that they are owed nothing, and that some people – when their high and unchanging standards are combined with their low SMV – are destined to be alone forever.
- While it is true that I tend to address my posts to women in college and just after, I actually have a lot of female readers in the 25-35 bracket.
- This December I am turning 33 and I find it depressing as hell that according to this blog, I’ve reached my peak and basically have nothing to offer to a quality guy who is looking to settle down.
- Some try to relocate to the location of the other, but it can be difficult to find jobs in the same location, especially knowing that further moves are likely just a couple of years away.
- As for you, I find it hard to believe that you were at the bottom of the pile with those luscious big brown south asian boobies and delectable chocolate nipples.
- Be careful about linking to He Who Shall Not Be Named here.
- Besides, what’s the worst that can happen?
- Both sexes are free to set their own standards.
- But I am seeing a woman 12 yrs younger than me.
You guys are focusing solely on the unrestricteds. You’re now a founding member of the United Moral Alliance.
I did so because I have always preferred the company of people older than myself. I didn’t think that he was in the KKK or anything. I don’t like thinking back to the campus days if I don’t have to. I don’t really know anyone that launched immediately into a LTR. I don’t think their entitled to either of those outcomes, it’s just simply *why* their going on dates. I don’t think there is much of a nightlife scene for young people where I grew up.
Everything's wonderful except that when he hangs out with he's kids once a week (two boys) I'm automatically out of the picture, or when he's mother comes over I have to stay away. Follow your heart and not what's trendy (or not) with society and friends. For all the discussion that goes here about how most men are just looking for a girl to settle down with, even back in my dating years, looking overly anxious to marry scared men off.
People will only give a crap about if you if you make *their* lives miserable – if you’re the quiet, withdrawn kind of depressive, you’ll just off yourself and nobody will even blink. Perhaps its time to go for a run. Pick one or the other. Please check your email and click on the link to activate your account. Same with Dunham, I think the main point she and Kaling are trying to convey is that “larger” women don’t define themselves by their dress size.
They were really pure and delicious raisins, unchewed by other men. This is not about dating an older man. This period in a relationship completely wrecks my life. Three weeks later her name is on the whiteboard in the basement and he pretends he doesn’t know her.
For every year older a man is past a certain age (his physical peak of 28? Furthermore, other than the very obvious reasons, why is a 42-year-old dating a 27-year-old? Future Marc might have more of a chance with the women once his SMV begins to rise with age and wisdom. GBFM is the fool-saint of teh interwebz. Get used to the fact that he’s lived a whole life before you met.
I doubt the Mom was happy about it though! I find his looks very rodent-like. I have been reading about how female attraction triggers change as women mature, and they become less impulsive.
Considering that my mom and dad lived till 87 and 92 respectively and my in-laws died young, I sort of expect to be a widow.
- (Restricted/unrestricted is too binary, and forces us to only think about the extremes.
- A little birdie told me that hot professors get hit on a lot by female students.
- Also, if I did go workout, assuming that this was, say, a 45 minute workout, by the tie I got back and showered, it would basically be bedtime.
- Also, way way way WAY more open to debate and intepretation!